It’s not personal.

But, we want to believe it is. We want to try to explain it away. It’s the other person’s behavior that’s making us feel so crappy. 

The truth is that we often blame others when we really don’t even have the entire story. 

An unanswered text……….”No answer is an answer”.
❤️Maybe they skimmed the text and didn’t see that you asked a question.

No reply to your question…….”He is deliberately ignoring me.”
❤️Maybe he just doesn’t know how to answer you. 

We used to be so close…….”I don’t know what I did to make him treat me this way.”
❤️Maybe he just doesn’t know where he fits into your new world. 
 

The truth is that their behavior has everything to do with them……..
☑️what motivates them,
☑️what they are thinking is the best way for them to respond,
☑️what will keep them from getting hurt themselves.

It often has nothing to do with us! We end up being hurt because we make it about us. 

I’m curious to know what your thoughts are on this matter. Are you open to having a conversation that may help alleviate some of the pain you have around your own relationships?

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